An Empath’s Modus Operandi For Conflict

I have never been one to give people a piece of my mind. I avoid confrontation at all costs. While I have known that people were being intentionally cruel, dishonest or disloyal in their dealings with me, I did not confront. And sometimes, I actually have no “evidence” that I am being wronged in any way, but my intuition informs me. For me, confrontation requires immense negative energy, not just on my part but from the other person as well. There is a strong visceral reaction that happens. And being the empath that I am, I can’t bear to watch the other person get uncomfortable or feel bad. But the Universe always resolves the situation without me lifting a finger. There is always a Divine Moment of Truth when the door opens for me to walk through. We are all navigating life in ways that work for us, and sometimes we find that our ways are not in harmony after all, and the lessons of the relationship have been completed. When I do finally walk through that door, I am always very ready to do so.

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